This would have been perfect a couple of days ago, when Valentines Day was exploding and making a lot of people feel a plastic-being-in-love or feeling like they’re the last handicapped person in the world who couldn’t get a date if they lives depended on it.

I’m here to tell you you’re better off without a relationship.

Do you think being with someone is the solution? Do you think that being miserable when you’re alone will suddenly change when you’re in a relationship?

Sure, you will experience surges of emotion. But do you think it’s rational or safe to put your sense of safety and wellbeing on the shoulders of a woman? Do you think she wants that? Chances are, she wants more desperately than you someone who is stronger and more reliant.

What you’re ignoring are the extraordinary benefits of being single.

If you’re with someone your time is restricted. You have to call, stay in touch. You think about her all day long. Your energy is depleted. Sure, you feel great – but you’re mission on something much greater than that.

You’re missing the chance of working on yourself.

In my experience, there is no ‘seduction’ or ‘dating’. Fuck that. Sure, there are a few things that you could do to improve. But the basics are king.

What are the basics? Being the person you want to be.

Not something like ‘I want to act cool, be hard-to-get, women should chase me’, that kind of person. I mean deep-down – your values, your mission in life, your sense of self.

Trust me when I say it – your mission is infinite more important than any given woman. And she will be VERY attracted to you because of that very mission.

I didn’t ejaculate for 2 weeks now. Before that I ejaculated rarely. A change since my broke-up with my ex-girlfriend.

Since then, I fucking exploded. I’m on the edge. I received answers to questions I’ve been hunting for years – my vision for a better world, who I want to be, my values, my rules for life. It’s extraordinary.

Take-Out Idea: Manage your attention and energy VERY carefully. You want women, work on yourself. You want happiness, work on yourself. You want to be Michael Jackson, work on yourself.

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It’s true. It’s my last post here. The reasons are multiple:

- I’m adopting minimalism and restricting my projects to the strict necessary ones

- I have a personal blog now ( http://thenovac.wordpress.com ) where you can explore all the crazy shit I continue to do

- I want to work on my visions for a better world, which include helping men be extraordinary

It’s been great to work with you guys. You’re wonderful. You’re the gold of this planet – never give up on improving and you’ll get far.

Cheers!